Why Problem Gambling is so Scary
THE SCARIEST ADDICTION
I often think to myself that problem gambling may be the scariest of all “addictions”. Sometimes I think this when I read scary stats, like the fact that that suicide is more common among problem gamblers than any other addiction–combined. Most often I have this thought when I learn about losses of problem gamblers and realize how much can be lost in a single moment when problem gambling is in control.
Speaking generally, the personal damage done by classic addictions (damage to health, status, relationships) occurs gradually and often observably, with the individual’s quality of life worsening over time.
But the nature of problem gambling is that a significant loss can be and often is immediate and enormous. When I think about this I usually start off feeling sympathy and then drift into empathy, trying to imagine what it must be like to suddenly confront such personal damage…
- To instantly lose your house in the roll of dice…
- To suddenly swamp your family in debt by one more play…
- To bet what you absolutely cannot lose and then suddenly lose it…
- To have borrowed money that comes with threats about not paying back…
THE IRONY OF THE FEAR
As I write about this I realize that that the thing which I regard as scariest about problem is, ironically, the very same thing which attracts the people to gambling—high-level risk. That is, while most people are frightened by such gambling, there are also many people who find such risk to be an overwhelming and irresistible thrill.
HELP MESSAGE
Partially because the consequences of problem gambling inspire this healthy fear, I am happy and encouraged to offer help which can inform awareness, provide treatment and support recovery. For more help please visit the links below, which will connect you to e-books, Youtube videos and more about the dangers of problem gambling.